
Jonathan Harrison January 30, 2009
Sui Sin Far
"While working as a legal secretary she continued to write and although her appearance and manners would have allowed her to easily pass as a dignified Englishwoman, she asserted her Chinese heritage and wrote articles that told what life was like for a Chinese woman in white America." (wikipedia)
Sui Sun Far had to deal with racism towards her Asian heritage her whole life and this quote is a symbol of the fact that she will not give away her Asian culture so easily. America is a place of false hopes in her eyes and the way it functions as a conforming machine, gives us a warning that all culture is in trouble once one sets foot on American soil and this quote was Far's way of fighting back.
This story was a depressing realization of real life for Chinese-American immigrants. Its starts out with a boy and his mother returning home to America where they had left 20 moons ago. Upon arrival the boy is refused admittance much to the dismay of his parents. The months drag on and the Chinese parents spirits slowly start to fade. They feel that their is a whole in their heart that can't be fixed. They are offered the services of a lawyer for 500 dollars who promises to get their son back. The proud parents sell all their jewelry in attempt to raise the money. When the boy is reunited with his parents, instead of it being a jubilant situation the boy instead shies away from his mother pleading with her to go away, while hiding behind the legs of a white nurse.
This story is heartbreaking when you realize that it is not some fictional tale that is far off from the truth but instead it hits close to home in capturing the atrocities that many asian-american immigrants had to go through. Far is all to familiar with the American experience, or becoming Americanized, and she really disdains the thought of the whole idea. Once one sets foot on American soil it is an ongoing process of assimilation that bleeds ones old self right out him. The thought of being old school or acting out the old ways of life is now looked down upon instead of rewarded. Fitting in is applauded amongst all these new immigrants while staying true to one's self and his people is thought to be boorish and most of the first generation recognizing this would rather see these ways become extinct rather than flourish in their new country. It is really sad that this is the case, for variety is the spice of life and when this element is taken out the world will become scarily boring. The parents in this story go to great lengths in trying help their son avoid this fate. The husband goes as far as to send his pregnant wife to china to have the baby, in attempts to render the child in a more traditional Chinese way. There attempts are futile though for the minute the boy reenters the United States the machine starts working and the assimilation starts to take place. The boy's youth can't help him escape these perils and by the end of the story his culture is gone. He is the same as any white kid would be and sadly the parents realize this. I hope that this story helps people savor and value their ethnicity for it is one thing that no one should ever be able to take away from one self and should thus be treated like the valuable commodity that it is.






